Im grieving my friend's upcoming abortion. How do I deal with this? I AM SO HURT!!! ?

She found out it's a gir. I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HAVE A DAUGHTER AND SHE'S KILLING HERS! I AM SOOOOOOO DISGUSTED! I HAVE BEGGED HER NOT TO DO IT AND GAVE HER A MILLION REASON WHY SHE SHOULDN'T DO IT but it seems that her mind is made up! **TEARS***