Do guys like when the woman is dominant in the relationship?

I am said to go after shyer, quieter men because I don't like dominant men, and I hate being told what to do. I'm not abusive lol. But what men like more dominant woman? The men I have been with are shyer, lankier, more respectful. I'm louder, more outgoing, and I have been compared to Kim Kardashian..So, do men like more dominant women?