How do you guys feel about cheating, and which would be worse for you?

it must be known that i hate cheaters, but i listened to what Dan Savage had to say and i sort of agree that some people should just not be in a monogamous relationship at all. if a person does it once(one night stand), its forgivable, may need to go to counseling to get over it, but i wouldn't necessarily end the relationship. its a mistake to learn from, and if they genuenly feel bad and i can see that through counseling then i could move on. more than that, would never ever forgive it. i was wondering how people in the LGBT viewed it. i know many people think that we are premiscuous, even though i'm bi and totally monogamous, but i wanted to get ya'll point of view. also which would be worse for you, emotional cheating(your partner was emotionally close to another but nothing physical happened) or physical cheating(it was a phyical relationship; had sex, made out etc.) i could forgive emotional though i would take it as a sign that we need to work on communication, but it would be hard for me to forgive a physical one. i'm not very emotional, i'm very physical, being physical means more to me than talking it out. i rather have my person give me physical interaction;cuddle make love make out etc. then listen to my problems. would really love to find out how the community feels about it.